I’m gonna use this time of self isolation to raise awareness for ME/CFS. This COVID-19 shit and especially the UK vulnerability criteria and how mine and my GP feel about it has made me realise how little people know about this illness. It’s kinda like the UK doesn’t care that we’re at risk of significant and serious relapse because we won’t die. GPs are also seeming to ignore what the ME association and Action for ME believe about the interaction between COVID-19 and ME/CFS. It’s not hard to google kids.
The sad thing is many GPs are not at all educated about this condition and there was a recent study showing some shocking statistics about what GPs believe about the illness and the people with the illness. If even GPs believe we’re lazy, we need to exercise more and that it’s not a real illness then how are we supposed to get help and treatment? Now in my personal case it probably doesn’t help that I’m awful at advocating for myself and I never push to get what I want or tell the full story.
But telling the full story is hard. It’s hard to explain what’s wrong when in essence it sounds like everything is wrong.
My ME affects me in a myriad of ways. I get numbness, tingling and even burning in my feet and left hand. It leads to difficulty controlling my hands and my legs will oftentimes forget how to be legs. I have seizure like shakes which hurt. It’s like a full on core workout. I can’t move throughout them and I can’t stop them. But I’m aware of them. I’m dizzy, even when laying down. I feel intense pressure in my head. Struggle to breath, get heart palpitations. Easy muscle fatiguability, I struggle to keep my eyes open. Nausea, Cognitive dysfunction and full body pain. I have a chronic sore throat and cough and often have a low grade cold. I’m sensitive to light, less so noise and smell but it does happen. My glands swell, my chest hurts. I have visual disturbances, most commonly in my left eye.
Yet I function, or atleast look like I function as the normal healthy adult. Yes I’ve had a lot of sick days lately. ME flares suck. Now I’m self isolating (by choice, sorry finances) and hilariously last night developed coronavirus symptoms. I was coughing more than usual and this morning I spiked a fever so absolutely no work until next friday! I get fevers a lot, and I don’t think it’s COVID-19 but can never be too careful in a global pandemic.
But for 6 years of ME, having never had a sick day from a job until 2 weeks ago is impressive.
What they don’t see is how much I have to push myself to do these things. How unwell I feel doing these things and the state of my flat. They don’t see how unwell I am when I wake up in the morning and the difficulties I have showering and washing/brushing my hair. The difficulties I have cooking or doing a form of exercise that isn’t climbing.
Yes I am well for someone with ME. I’m lucky right now… But it’s still significant. It’s still a significant daily battle with all of these symptoms at varying degrees. I’ve heard that most people with ME who can work full time only feel occasionally ill. I am not one of those people. I push and I fight, because there is nothing worse than feeling like a burden on the world and feeling misunderstood or feeling like your not enough.
There is progress being made in understanding this illness. It just hasn’t reached the mainstream yet and it needs to. We need proper education, proper research and as always more awareness.